Lesson 102: Because even we don't like being bossed around
Unless you're a benevolent dictator, people will find it hard to respect you if you don't let them have some say in the matter.
Give people some space, for the love of all things sane, give them some space!
And remember: Totalitarianism is like that one relative you have who just won't leave you alone.
Read on to Don't 3: Don't Assume They're Interested