You've been ghosted by a disaster mom. Don't worry, it's not your fault. It's not even her fault. It's just the universe's fault for existing.
But don't be too hard on her, okay? She's got a lot on her plate, like 3 jobs, 2 kids, and a minivan that's on its last legs.
Here's a link to a disaster dad who might be able to help you process your feelings about the whole ordeal.
Or, if you're feeling extra emotional, you could try to join a support group to commiserate with other ghosted victims.