Each speaker gets three minutes to share their thoughts. No more, no less. Don't make eye contact, don't nod, and for the love of all things sane, don't try to summarize what the other person is saying.
Examples of The 3-Touch RuleThis page is full of examples that will help you see the 3-Touch Rule in action. Or, you know, not-action.
Make sure to use hand gestures, nod your head, and occasionally make a 'uh-huh' noise to show you're actively listening. But not too much, or you'll start to look like a try-hard.
Examples of The Non-Verbal Cues RuleThis page is a deep dive into the art of using non-verbal cues without actually being annoying.
It's okay to pretend you're not listening. In fact, it's encouraged. Just stare off into space, tap your pen on the table, and occasionally make a 'uh-huh' noise. It's like you're actively listening, but not really.
Examples of The 'I'm Not Listening' RuleBecause, honestly, who needs to actually listen, right?