Meeting Predictors: Styles of the Inevitable
Because you can't avoid them, you might as well learn to predict them.
1. The "I'm-Not-Listening" Predictor
This predictor is characterized by a glazed-over expression and a lack of eye contact.
| Common Symptoms: | Causes: |
|---|---|
| Head nodding, occasional 'uh-huh' | Overuse of "That's right, I'm listening" |
Example:
Bob: "The meeting is at 2 PM."
Alice: "Uh-huh."
2. The "I'm-Just-Gesturing" Predictor
This predictor is characterized by excessive hand gestures, often accompanied by a "I'm getting to the point" tone.
| Common Symptoms: | Causes: |
|---|---|
| Excessive waving, tapping, or pointing | Overuse of "Let me make one thing clear" |
Example:
Mike: "We need to focus on the project goals."
Carol: "I'm just trying to make a point, here."
And many more... Types of Predictors
(Note: Predictors are not responsible for actual progress or resolution of issues. Consult a professional mediator for that)
