It's time to learn social skills when you're ready to stop being a social outcast, but not quite ready to be a functioning member of society. This is the sweet spot where you can still be yourself, but with a hint of polish.
Don't play if you're already a functioning member of society. That's just called being an adult. We're not judging you, though.
Start by striking up a conversation with a random person in a crowded elevator. If it doesn't end in disaster, you might be ready to play.
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