Our Polyamorous Adventures: Conflict Resolution - Step 2

Step 2: The Art of Non-Verbal Communication (a.k.a. The Art of Not Talking About the Other Person's Ex)

As a polyamorous individual, you know that effective communication is key. But what happens when you're in the midst of a conflict with your partner's ex?

That's when the art of non-verbal communication comes into play. Think of it as the art of not talking about the other person's ex. It's like a delicate dance, a subtle game of "not mentioning the elephant in the room".

Here are some tips to help you master this art:

• Practice your "neutral face" in the mirror until you can maintain it for at least 5 minutes.
• Develop a "polyamorous gaze" that says "I'm not looking at you, I'm looking over you".
• Use a "non-committal" body language that says "I'm not judging you, I'm just... not judging you".
• Learn to "listen" without actually "hearing" (it's a polyamorous thing).

Remember, it's all about subtlety and finesse. The key is to not make it obvious that you're not talking about the other person's ex. It's like a game of "polyamorous telephone" - you're just playing along, pretending not to notice the elephant in the room.

For further reading, check out our subpage on Step 3: The Art of Active Listening (a.k.a. The Art of Ignoring Your Partner's Ex's Instagram Posts).