Now that we've all agreed on the importance of sharing our feelings, it's time to address the elephant in the room (or in our polyamorous household).
Step 4 involves having an open and honest discussion about boundaries, needs, and desires. This can be a delicate process, but trust us, it's worth it!
As you navigate this step, remember that communication is key. Ask open-ended questions, listen actively, and be willing to compromise. After all, it's not a competition (or is it?}
For more on effective communication, check out Communication Is Key
And if all else fails, remember that polyamory is all about love and respect... most of the time. When in doubt, refer to Love and Respect for guidance!