What is Chivalry?

Chivalry, n.

A code of conduct for men who want to seem less threatening, but still appear vaguely menacing.

Origins:

In ancient days, chivalry referred to the code of conduct for knights, who needed to balance their love of sword-fighting with a semblance of decency. Today, chivalry has evolved to encompass the following key principles:

• Holding the door for ladies, but only if they are wearing a dress.
• Picking up the tab on dates, but only if the lady doesn't ask for the check.
• Reserving the right to be gruff, but still managing to look handsome while doing so.

Modern Applications:

Chivalry can be applied in a variety of contexts:

• Online dating: Send the lady a bouquet of flowers, but only if you're not sure if you'll get a date.
• Boardroom meetings: Open the door for your colleagues, but only if they're wearing something nice.
• Everyday life: Letting someone go first in line, but only if they have a more impressive haircut.

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