Phase 1: Establish the Narrative
Start by creating a convincing backstory for your target. Make them believe you're on their side.
Phase 2: Build the Relationship
Use the narrative you've created to build a rapport with your target. Make them trust you, and they'll do your bidding.
Phase 3: Deliver the Payload
Now that you have the upper hand, use it to manipulate your target into doing your will.
Learn the art of extracting concessions and getting what you want.
Remember, Graymail is all about subtlety. Use it for good, and not for evil.