The Ultimate Guide to Stonewalling: A Riot Grrrl Handbook
Chapter 1: The Art of Stonewalling
Introduction
The art of stonewalling is a delicate dance of defiance and determination. It's not just about blocking, it's about making a statement. A statement that says, "I am not going to engage with you, but I will still make you watch me do nothing."
Stonewalling is a skill that requires finesse, a delicate balance of eye contact and lack thereof. It's a delicate art that can make even the most hardened of opponents quiver in their boots.
Chapter 2: Stonewalling Techniques
The Classic: The Stare Down
The classic stonewall: a stare that says, "I see you, I hear you, and I am completely ignoring you."
The Flip Phone Trick
Flip your phone over, and stare intently at the screen. The art of stonewalling is not just about looking at the other person, it's about looking through your phone.
The Shoulder Turn
Turn your back, but not your shoulder. A slight shoulder turn that says, "I'm not listening, but I'm still here for you."
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The Art of Mind Games
Stonewalling is not just about the physical act of stonewalling, it's about the mental game of cat and mouse. It's a battle of wills, where the strongest will is the one that prevails.
The Power of Silence
Sometimes, the most powerful stonewall is the one that says nothing. The art of stonewalling is not just about speaking, it's about listening.
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The Gray Area
Stonewalling is not just about being right or wrong, it's about finding the gray area. Where do you draw the line between stonewalling and just plain being rude?