Defending Against In-Laws: Step 1-2: The Art of Observation

As any seasoned warrior of family dynamics knows, the key to defending against in-laws is not just about being prepared for battle; it's also about knowing the enemy.

Step 1-2: Observe and Report

Critical information gathering is key to any successful defense strategy. This involves observing the in-law's behavior, noting their habits, and cataloging their weaknesses.

Some things to note:

• Favorite hobbies: Are they into gardening, cooking, or extreme ironing?
• Food preferences: Do they like spicy, sour, or sweet? (Hint: Avoid serving anything with wasabi.)
• Social media presence: Are they influencers, lurkers, or simply posting pictures of their cat?

Step 2-1: The Art of Discreetly Gathering Intel

Step 2-2: The Fine Art of Active Listening

Step 2-3: The Science of Subtle Manipulation