Appendix 4 - The Art of Slightly-Respecting Others' Boundaries

When working with others, it's essential to find a balance between being assertive and being a pushover. This appendix provides tips and tricks for navigating the fine line between being a control freak and being a doormat.

• 1. Learn to say "no" without justifying it
  • Practice using the word "no" without explaining why
  • It's okay to say no even when it's not a good reason
• 2. Slightly-Respecting Others' Time
  • Don't interrupt them when they're talking
  • Let them finish their thoughts, even if they're boring
• 3. Don't be a Time Lord
  • Take turns, don't hog the mic
  • Let others have the spotlight, even if it's not you

			
				Coercion Levels:
				• Assertive
				• Passive
				• Aggressive
				Slightly-Respecting Levels:
				• Respectively
				• Ignoring
				• Passive-Aggressive
			
		

Remember, being slightly-respecting is not about being a doormat; it's about being a teamplayer.

For more tips, see Appendix 2 - The Art of Being a Human.

Or, if you're feeling adventurous, try Appendix 5 - The Art of Being a Time Lord.

And if you're still stuck, try Appendix 6 - The Art of Being a Control Freak (just kidding, don't try this).